Are You Building the Life You Desire?

We may work very hard to achieve our goals, but if one crucial element is missing, it may be that all our hard work does not bring the results we desire.

• with whom do you spend the majority of your free time?
• what are the conversations you have during that time?
• what are the goals of the people with whom you spend your time?
• in turn, what do they do during their free time when they are not with you?
• what do you read? what do your friends read?
• what kind of films or documentaries do you watch? what kind of films or documentaries do your friends watch?
• whom do you admire? whom do your friends admire?

The answers to these questions will show you much about yourself. This is not a question of it being good or bad, but simply of observing and becoming aware of what is going on in your life during your free time when you are not specifically engaged with working on achieving your goals. Napoleon Hill put it beautifully: Deliberately seek the company of people who influence you to think and act on building the life you desire.

Who populates your life?

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