Unfinished Business You Can't Afford Not to Finish

Do you have any idea what the negative inside of you does to you?

It can affect your physical health, creating such problems as high blood pressure, unhealthy cholesterol levels, stress, accelerated heart rate, all of which can eventually lead you to diseases of many kinds.

So the negative inside of you is something you need to get a handle on. More than anything, it would be very helpful if you could begin to realize that you literally cannot afford the luxury of having any unfinished business in your life. In order to start the process of eliminating it from your life, you need to become aware of how much it pulls you into the past. By pulling you into the past, it pulls you back into the low energy associated with the negativity of whatever the unfinished business is (see also my Augsut 2008 Newsletter: Cellular Responsibility: Getting Your Power Back).

What does unfinished business look like? Unfinished business is typically one or more of the following:

• anger
• resentment
• hurt
• guilt
• shame
• anxiety
• depression

What is the quickest way to deal with it? Forgiving.

Here is a three-pronged quote from the above-cited article:

• Recognize that not forgiving holds parts of you in the past
• Understand that forgiving does not mean you condone what was done, nor does it mean you now need to have a wonderful relationship with that person … you may need to move on, but by forgiving, the hold that the event had over you, will be gone.
• Forgiving also does not mean forgetting – but it does mean, removing the charge from the memory

Forgive the past and it will no long own you. Forgive and you will be free.

Photo: Pachula Lake, India