Your answer might be an amalgam of the following:
- it depends on what is said or done to me
- it depends on how ridiculous / crazy / contentious / unconventional / opposed to mine, etc., another's opinion is
What about looking at it from another angle, perhaps quite out-of-the-box, where you decide that ideally it will be you and not those outer circumstances that will decide whether or not you should argue. And perhaps if you are able to do that, you would come to the conclusion that arguing is rarely, if ever, of any value. That doesn't mean you can't state your opinion about a subject, even a diametrically opposed opinion, but the argument will only arise if you insist that your opinion is correct while the other person's is wrong. But if you only state your opinion and allow the other person to 'own' his or her opinion, then there can be no argument (assuming they allow you the right to your own opinion). And even if they don't, in the words of Wayne Dyer: conflict cannot survive without your participation.
You - and only you - can decide and choose whether you will participate in any kind of conflict or argument. What do you choose?
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