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Friday, April 25, 2014

Confidence & Belief in the Self


Isn't it fascinating that Seneca said the same thing in 50 BC as Emerson said in the 1880's, nearly 2000 years later? Both insisted on the importance of belief and confidence in the self as follows:

There's one blessing only, the source and cornerstone of beatitude -- confidence in self.
Seneca

Self-trust is the first secret of success.
Ralph Waldo Emerson

If you believe that you can live a life filled with joy and peace, harmony and freedom without having given some time to the development of this belief in yourself, you will certainly find that those qualities escape you over and over again.

Consider this: if you want to develop your triceps you practice by lifting weights or going to the gym, or swimming, or rowing, or doing some kind of exercise suitable for that development over and over again until you reach the desired result. Did you have strong, firm tricepts prior to this? Were you able to do many repetitions of the necessary exercises prior to this? Of course not. But did you believe that you were going to be able to develop those triceps? Of course. So many people have done so before you, so you know it works.

Developing confidence in the self is a very similar process. It requires a belief in the fact that it can be done, it requires discipline in activities aimed at achieving that goal, and it requires enough love for the self that you are willing to do those activities again and again in order to acquire this confidence and belief in the self.

Seneca knew. Emerson knew. Knowing that they knew, and knowing that millions of others in the 2000 years that separated these two great men also knew can help you to know this as well and to use that knowledge in order to implement it in your life. It's a choice.

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Books by Dr. Gabriella Kortsch:
 
Rewiring the Soul

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"The masterwork of a profoundly gifted healer of the soul. Dazzling, challenging, wondrously useful." Peggy Rubin, Director, Center for Sacred Theatre, Ashland, Oregon; author: To Be and How To Be, Transforming Your Life Through Sacred Theatre

"Rewiring the Soul is one the best introductions to the spiritual life I've ever read. Not esoteric but real-world & practical. The implications are profound." Peter Shepherd; Founder Trans4mind.com; author: Daring To Be Yourself 

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The Tao of Spiritual Partnership

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“All humans seek the illusive touch of another's Soul, which opens us to the sense of belonging to something bigger than the self. Dr. Kortsch has given us the true "tao" of relationship in this brilliant exploration of emotional tapestry. We will be grateful for this illumination of spiritual partnership for generations to come."
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The Power of Your Heart: Loving the Self 


My new book: The Power of Your Heart: Loving the Self, is just out. Click here to download an excerpt. 

From the Introduction: It is your right to live a life of love. It is your right to understand that loving yourself first is not a selfish way of behavior, but one that allows you to live that life of love. However, it's highly probable that you never got the instruction manual explaining exactly how to accomplish this. Possibly your family - and it may have been a loving family - considered loving the self an act of selfishness. Or perhaps the members of your family simply didn't practice loving the self, and of course, what you didn't see - what was not shown to you - while you were growing up, meant that you just didn't learn how to apply it to yourself. The closer you are able to move towards loving yourself, the closer you will be to living a life of love - quite independently of whether you are in a love relationship or not. A life of love can be lived with or without a partnership, because a life of love implies that you know that it all begins with you by loving the self. The more clearly you understand how to love yourself, the more clearly you will see that it is very hard - if not impossible - to love others in ways that are unrelated to fulfilling any of your needs. Loving yourself first is - for so many of us - one of the hardest things we will ever learn how to do. But know this: the benefits affect you in every particle of your being - body, mind, and soul - and are greater than you will ever be able to imagine.


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