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Friday, March 16, 2012

Living Without Bitterness and Resentment




I've often wondered if those people whose lives are filled with bitterness and resentment could just see for a moment in time what their lives would be like without the bitterness and the resentment (and the ensuing pain), whether they would then take the step towards making the choice of putting the bitterness and resentment behind them.

Because that is really what it's all about...making a different choice.

It's not so much about being compassionate towards the person (or insitution) who did whatever it was to them; it's also not so much about letting by-gones be by-gones. Much more than that it's about recognizing that you can continue to identify with whatever it was that threw your life out of balance at some point in the past (yesterday or a quarter of a century ago), and that caused much pain then, which is why the bitterness and resentment arose, or you can decide that you simply are no longer that person. That you choose to be a person without bitterness and resentment for you. For your own good. For your own inner freedom and growth. And particularly in order to make space inside of you.

As you choose to turn your back on the bitterness and resentment, you no longer need to use up energy - psychic energy - (psychological energy) to maintain those feelings. So now your energy can be channeled towards totally different - life-giving - endeavours.

It's about forgiving (see also Can You Forgive?) and getting your power and your whole self  back (see also Cellular Responsibility: Getting Your Power Back).

It's about life meaning and how much that is a life-giving force in your existence (see also Finding a Meaning For Your Life).

More than anything, it's about you, and your love for yourself (see also Love Yourself First and Loving Yourself: A Roadmap).

 

For more information about living with freedom as opposed to living with bitterness and resentment, about being aware, about inner well-being, inner growth and joy, see my book Rewiring the Soul: Finding the Possible Self, available at Amazon as paperback or e-book for Kindle.

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